Falling in love takes a lot of courage particularly for men. When a man is in love he thinks about the future suffering that can occur as a result of him opening up to his partner. Men rarely dive in fully; they usually take small steps to “test the water” in order to avoid being hurt or disappointed. They also have a hard time understanding women but for most of them the following 5 things are detrimental in a relationship.
1.He feels you are trying to fix him
Trying to fix a man will make him feel that his flaws are enormous and that he will never be able to be himself without being judged. This can scare him and make him leave because he feels emasculated. Albert Einstein once said “Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.” No person will change and no one actually needs to. Instead, you should discover your true self and grow as a person in order to become a supportive partner.
2.Being threatened by your success
The University of Florida conducted a study which discovered that men feel threatened when their female partners experience success. A man changes his views of the relationships future when a woman experiences success. This can make him feel he is not able to get what he deserves and he is likely to leave her.
3.Nagging all the time
Your male partner is able to zone out your voice at any time. However, constant nagging can become very frustrating especially if you treat him like a child. If you don’t appreciate him and you act in a passive-aggressive manner don’t be surprised if he leaves you.
4.Lack of intimacy
Men like intimacy just as much as women, but if you make him beg for it he will start looking for it in another person. If you are not prepared to be intimate with your partner don’t expect him to stand by you too long.
5.Comparing him with other men
Men are particularly annoyed when you talk about your past relationships and you compare them with your ex. They hate analyzing your past relationships and partners.
6.Emotional co-dependency
Just like every normal person, men also need their space and don’t like being treated as a possession. Men also like spending time with their friends or participating in sports or other social gatherings. If you deprive him from these pleasures he is likely to sneak out of your life forever. For men this is the equivalence of being in a prison and if he feels you are trying to gain control over his life he will leave you for sure.
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