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Monday, 11 July 2011

Good women are all around us

Good women are all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls, in captivity behind the walls, and in the hall at work. Most we can’t see because we don’t know what a good woman really looks like. She usually isn’t flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. She might not wear a fur coat or push a Lexus. She might not hav...e a “body by Fisher” or a face for “Ebony.” But as you mature, you realize it’s better to find someone who’s got your back than someone who turns your head. A good woman doesn’t agree whole-heartedly with everything you say. She doesn’t just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. She doesn’t have to declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, yaddy, yaddy, ya, she is (she won’t have to…because it shows). She has her own opinions and you may clash, but she doesn’t have to degrade you to prove she’s right. She even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same. A good woman is not going to meet every item on your checklist. She is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of her wonderful sensual attributes. She needs your love and respect. She needs to feel that you don’t have to catch her doing something wrong so you can declare “Aha, I knew all along.” A good woman doesn’t necessarily give you huge birthday or Valentine gifts. She shows her love in the ways that are comfortable to her. Don’t judge her by TV standards.See more