Kenyan men should step up or ship out! says Ciku Muiruri

But who would look at you (Ciku) twice anyway? Even the foreigners! 

To be manly is having or denoting those good qualities traditionally associated with men such as courage and strength. So a man who acts the opposite of this I’d imagine is a wimp – Weak, feeble and cowardly. I saw something on the news this week that made me sad. A wimp (Allow me to use this word to denote his feeble message) representing the male population under the auspices of the Global Gender Empowerment Network was asking guys to stand up for themselves (presumably against women) by shaking our hands with their left hand, not smiling at us and not having physical relations with us. Does this sound very manly to you? Why would an organization that purports to empower men give them silly things to do that can only serve to emasculate them?

I’m tired of Kenyan men. I really am. A South African, Zimbabwean, Ghanaian, Nigerian, American, English and French guy have all told me that there is something very wrong with the average Kenyan guy. I agree. You make a million excuses for them until you interact with men of different cultures and then you understand – Houston, we have a problem! We have to breed this lot out of existence. In every society you have an evolutionary pattern that emerges for the species to propagate. If for example you live in a society where men do not have economic power and women are doing very well, men evolve to be very good looking and virile. If conversely society has plenty of successful men then women around them have extraordinary beauty. Look at Ethiopian or Rwandese women. Here, they will stop traffic. But in their countries their men will walk down the street and keep walking when a hottie walks past without a second glance. Why? Because they are a dime a dozen. The women are not economically empowered and to propagate, evolution conspires to make them more physically appealing to the males in their society. Getting a beautiful woman to marry and sire your kids is as easy as a gesture, so they evolve to have the edge.

Chicago is an example of a city that has a disproportionate number of hot guys. They are everywhere! Waiters, bellboys, random guys on the streets, hot, hot, hot! You know how your typical African American movie has the Blair Underwoods of this world? I saw at least 20 of those on an average day. When was the last time a guy in Nairobi turned your head? It just doesn’t happen. The women in Chicago meanwhile are quite random looking but they seem to have money. Can you see the pattern? Enter Kenya and its peculiarity. Our men have no money. And they are not hot. Combine these two things and add insult to injury – They treat women like crap. So what exactly does one get out of the deal when it comes to dealing with Kenyan guys? Absolutely nothing! Are these the genes we want to pass on to our children? What happened to the days when men were men? The days of DedanKimanthi?Did he and his crew need a wimpish empowerment agenda when they fought to protect our lands and our honour?

They have been replaced by mediocre looking chaps who want our money and unimaginatively shake our hands, left handed, to protest against being marginalized in a society where they can’t make anything happen for themselves as a real man can and should!Oh, and they somehow, incredulously think that they will punish females by saying no to physical relations (As if we are lining up to ask!). Sigh. Let’s hook up with foreigners and protect our species. Yes ladies, feel free to breed this lot right out of existence!

Ciku’s beefs, Zuqka magazine, Daily Nation – 15 Nov, 2013.

Feedback from others.......and how the guys felt. 

• Bongo
  That is because Kenyan ladies are amongst the ugliest in the world, and it does not help them either when they dress poorly and defend their poor choice as “kwani navalia watu?”.
  Maybe your Foreign friends have told you whatever about Kenyan men, but do you know the repiutation our women have on the international arena? Out of civility, we Kenyan men choose to not talk about it.
  I have lived in some of the cities you mention and I’ll tell you this, 100% of the time Kenyan ladies talk like you do, but 99% of the time I get to see weddings between Kenyan and Kenyan…..What gives?
  Let me give you, and the rest of the Kenyan women a lesson in life. I will use your example of Ethiopian and Rwandese women for I have been to both countries anyways. From the outside (meaning Kenyan woman’s view), women in these societies appear to be abused by their men, they humble themselves before their households, their men. It is not unusual to see a woman from these communities give a young boy utmost respect or even kneel to greet a boy. Do the men demand it? Nope. In return, the men have the biggest respect for their women.
  Now take the Kenyan woman….noisy, ugly, and as in your case think having money equates handsomeness.
  • anandos
    I agree with man I have dated a Rwandese and a Burundian women after you are done with bedminto they say thank you but a Kenyan women busy looking at your pocket thinking on how much you gonna give her.
  • anandos
    ciku muiruri nowonder you are still single at your age
• mNGARA
  Bongo
  wewe mchingaaa .. how do we talk.. the way l am now,… hahahahaaa Hope you are
  hot and you Anandos l guess you are poor .. Well get them BUrundi and
  which other one you said and marry them , if that what make you happy go for
  it… You Bongo lala do not worry about us kenya women we are just doing fine
  ..

  I believe if one come across a true African man who call himself a MAN , they
  surely know how to handle a Kenya woman like wachinga ka nyinyi wawili .. you
  are just but pathetic…
• Margaret
  who are this men.. l bet they love to be worshipped and they ain’t getting any from poor dressed kenya women .. sadddddd for Bongo and Anandos … poor souls somebody give them a hook ..

  
  

  Salya

  • this woman sounds as stupid as she sounds ridiculous, i wonder how she got a show in the 1st place, people need to stop listening to nonsense, come on guys change that radio station n listen to someone with more sense, not one who is just running her mouth, in that case even my 1 yr old niece can start her own show. waste of my precious time reading her ignoramus article. comparing kenyan women to ethiopian, is like comparing apples n oranges, plz someone tell this chokin n chicken woman to go bak to school